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How to Help The Hoarder

Screenshot 2016-06-05 at 6.22.18 PMWhen hoarding gets out of control, it can be classified as a very serious mental condition that could expose people who do it to dangerous living conditions if left unmanaged. When you love someone who hoards, the initial reaction would be to help that person overcome his problem. However, you cannot force your loved one to get better instantly. Instead, it should be done gradually, and you can start by providing a supportive environment that motivated your loved one to seek help.

Don’t Enable the Behavior
Although you cannot stop a hoarder from hoarding, what you can do is refrain from enabling that behavior. For instance, if your loved one hoards antiques, then it would be a bad idea to invite her to go to thrift stores. Likewise, if your dad is a compulsive collector, then you shouldn’t be adding to her collection at every occasion. If you want to help your loved one, don’t offer some help like storing his hoarded items. On the other hand, if you’re living with that person, then don’t allow his belongings to overtake your home.

Educate Yourself to Help
To the outside observer, hoarding isn’t really a big deal at all, but it doesn’t make any sense either. If you want to help your loved one, you should try your best to be knowledgeable about this condition, and that could be done by consulting mental health professionals, reading websites, and attending support groups for those who want to help a hoarder. As you become familiar with the loneliness, fear, and anxiety the hoarders go through, you’ll have the ability to offer empathy and support for them.

Never Take Their Possessions
If your loved one’s place is covered in unused clothes or magazines, it can be quite tempting to ‘help’ him by taking the items he keeps (hoards). The truth is, this wouldn’t be helpful at all, because it would just destroy the relationship you have with that person. Also, a lot of hoarders would experience serious emotional anxiety attacks once their possessions are taken away from them. So, if your intentions are good, doing something like this should be completely avoided.

Acknowledge Small Accomplishments
For people who have been hoarders for decades, it could be difficult to get rid of their possessions and ‘cure’ themselves right away. You can encourage your loved one to stop being a hoarder by celebrating small victories, such as throwing away some of the things he doesn’t really need, or avoiding the urge of buying new ones.

Don’t Clean Up for Them
Even though helping your loved one sort his belongings, doing everything for him wouldn’t be quite helpful at all. Also, you cannot expect the person in your life to make a progress if you’d be forcing or pressuring him to get into the treatment right away. To prevent anxiety attacks, you should let the hoarder make decisions for himself, and just be ready to support him.

Help in Finding a Treatment
You don’t have to force your loved one to seek for help, but if he shows some interest, what you can do is do some research, and find a good therapist who can help.

You Can Stop Hoarding For Good!

If you’ve been a hoarder all your life, changing your ways can definitely be a challenge and very unpleasant. Although most hoarders aren’t really like what you see on TV shows, there’s no doubt that the possessions in your home can easily get out of hand if left unmanaged.
That said, allow us to discuss some of the most effective ways on how to stop hoarding for good.

1. Do You Think It’s Useful?
One of the best ways to stop hoarding is to refrain from bringing new objects into your place. Wherein, every time you get the urge to shop, try to think for a moment, and ask yourself if you really need that item; if you’ll have a use for it; or if you already have one. There’s a huge chance that you don’t really need it, and it would just sit in your cabinet or cupboard for several months.

2. Learn to Say NO
A lot of hoarders tend to have their home as a place where someone else’s junk can be stored. If you always get the offer from people– usually friends and family– who are giving away their unwanted goods, it’s better to turn down these offers. You don’t have to feel obliged to accept the gift, because it’s not your problem if they want to throw them away. Also, just think about it; if they have decided to throw the item away, that means it’s not really as useful as what you think.

3. Why Do You Hoard?
It’s very important to look at the reasons why you decided to hoard. Is it because you have the tendency to shop whenever you’re bored? Similarly, does having possessions around make you feel a little happier? Whatever motivates you for hoarding, you have to discover what these are, and try to deal with them.

4. How Much Have You Been Spending?
If you really want to stop being a hoarder, this tip can be very effective and helpful for you. Try to determine how much you have been spending on your possessions for the past few years, or assess the value of the goods you have in your room.

You don’t have to come up with a precise figure, but it’d probably surprise you once you discover how much you have been spending on these things.

5. Accept Help
If you really want to stop hoarding, but you’re finding it hard to make that happen, then it’s probably the right time to ask your friend for help.

Choose someone who can be quite tough, and would inspire you to throw something out whenever you have to, without feeling guilty at all.

6. Organize
Lastly, you have to get your possessions organized, and this is where a friend can also be helpful. Learn how to store your belongings properly in order to make it easier for you to find them and keep everything tidy.

When your possessions are in place, your home would look a lot better, and eventually, you’ll be able to let go of your hoarding impulses as you’d have to maintain your room organized.

 

This post is sponsored by our friends at http://www.bayareacrimescene.com in Richmond, Ca. Fantastic Crime Scene and Hoarding Clean up, family owned company.

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